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Are Birthday Parties Overrated?

 

Kids Birthday Party

Just a few decades ago, birthday parties for children were generally quite simple. Most of the time, these celebrations involved playing some games, wearing party hats, and having cake with ice cream. More recently, children’s birthday parties have evolved into a complex and expensive industry of their own, with professional party planners for hire, venues that provide immersive, themed experiences, and everything in between.

Parents and children alike may feel pressured to throw a birthday party each year, simply because it feels expected or it’s what others do. However, a birthday party may not be ideal for your child or your family situation. In fact, it’s possible that birthday parties are overrated in many instances.

Reasons Birthday Parties Might Be Overrated

Of course, most children look forward to their birthday and many of them enjoy celebrating with a party. However, planning even the smallest of parties can create stress for parents and the birthday child as well. It can be difficult to arrange busy schedules, decide how many and which guests to invite, and choose where to have the event. In addition, planning a children’s birthday party can be challenging in terms of staying within a budget.

Here are just some reasons to consider why birthday parties might be overrated:

  • Intense emotional build-up and let down of party/celebration for the birthday child
  • Pressure put on the birthday child to behave “perfectly” at their party
  • Potentially unwelcome attention and focus on the birthday child
  • Worry on the part of the birthday child’s parents that people will attend and/or have fun
  • Unpredictable outcomes such as inclement weather, illness, etc.
  • Stress for the birthday child’s parents in terms of party planning, costs, socializing, responsibility for other people’s children
  • Setting up unrealistic expectations in terms of birthday celebrations and attention
  • Too much emphasis or focus on who to invite and/or receiving material gifts from partygoers
  • Pressure on other families and children to participate, bring a gift, etc.

Other Options

Another reason birthday parties might be overrated is the availability of so many other options to make your child feel special and their day memorable. For example, children often cherish spending quality time with their families. Taking a family day trip to a fun museum, zoo, beach, national park, etc., gives everyone the chance to have fun and make memories. Another option is to allow your birthday child to invite their closest friend to do something special such as bowling, going to a movie, or whatever interests them—without the chaos of a full-blown birthday party.

Some families celebrate their children’s birthday with a “yes” or “wish” day. This means allowing the birthday child to choose whatever they would like to do (within reason) for part of or the whole day. They may want to have cake for breakfast and stay in pajamas to play at home until bedtime. Or you might let your child choose what to have for dinner or where to have it.

Overall, the idea is to focus on what is important and fun to your child as a means of celebrating them and what makes them special. Memories of meaningful experiences and togetherness tend to last much longer than even the most lavish or intricate of parties. Parents should feel comfortable asking their child whether they want a party or an alternative celebration.

Keeping Things Simple

Of course, if your child truly wants to have a birthday party, that is perfectly fine. You can keep the celebration simple in order to avoid planning and/or financial stress. For example, having a small party in a public park where your child and their friends can play freely for an hour or two can make for a very enjoyable celebration.

Another option for simplicity and less pressure is making a note for guests on the invitation to not to bring a gift and come just for the fun. Or you can set a charitable gift-giving theme such as bringing a book to donate to a children’s hospital, a gently used blanket or towel to give to an animal shelter, or even a non-perishable item to provide to a food pantry. Collecting such donations can make the birthday child and their guests feel good about contributing to a worthy cause.

One of the best ways to celebrate your child is through encouraging imaginative play and learning about the world around them. At Cognisprings, we support parents looking for educational toys that inspire children to explore who they are and their environment. That’s why we provide books, puzzles, games, and toys that are thoughtfully designed for independent as well as cooperative playtime.

Our unique products enhance children’s critical thinking, creativity, and curiosity. In addition, Cognisprings prioritizes fun and educational activities that are screen-free, promote healthy cognitive development, and encourage personal growth. Family togetherness, such as playing games or reading, not only creates lasting memories, but it’s a wonderful way to celebrate and commemorate special days such as your child’s birthday.